Children are precious and needs care and attention always. I come from a big family and in my culture your family, relatives, in-laws and friends would look after your kids or help you take care of them when needed. In the United States it is different you have to take care of your own children and everyone has their responsibility to their family. I have seen how single mothers struggle to take care of their children because they have to go to school, work, pay bills and take care of their child. It is a hard situation especially if you do not have family support. Many women chose to have children when they have the resources available but sometimes things happen and our plans change. I plan to graduate, get a good job and have all the resources needed to provide for my children. I have learned from other women's mistake and i do not want to make the same. My mom always advice me and tells me how hard it was being a single mom herself and i know it was hard so i try not to make any mistake. I do plan to have four kids and provide for them at all times i protect myself and take advantage of the preventive methods provided because prevention is the key.
Culture does play a major role in how we perceive family. However, I think with new opportunity comes new way of thinking. It would be easier if all women had a larger support network or family but that just isn't the case for many women. You are wise to be aware of the mistakes made by other women and learn from them. Often, we may witness mistakes yet repeat them ourselves. Good luck in your goals to finish school and have 4 kids. I wish you the best!
ReplyDeleteI agree that things like pregnancy can be unexpected and believe if possible, women should wait until they have all the resources available and are in comfortable situation to have a child.
ReplyDeleteMy mother was a single mom and struggled working and going to school to provide a better life for my brother and I. I think that it is crucial female women get their education and be able to live independently, not having to rely on another for financial support!