Food and weight has always been discussed at home because i have a very big family and everyone cooks and eat whatever they want. Although as a family we know we are overweight and as an individual we each want to diet but can never keep it up mainly because of other responsibilities. In my family we consider being overweight a family thing. My grandparents and great grandparents are not overweight but my parents and uncles and aunt including us children are overweight. We are not obese but we sometimes talk as if we are. Weight has been a serious issue lately among my siblings and cousins because they are at that age that they feel like they do not fit in because they are 10 or 5 pounds over. Media influences my siblings and cousins a great deal because they want to fit into a certain size or they want to wear the same size the models wore in the magazine. I have been overweight since high school and i have lost weight by different types of diet and gain it right back. As an individual i have learned to love and accept myself as being overweight. I was recently sick and i realized that it was time for a change or i am at risk of illnesses that can be prevented through healthy eating and physical activities. It is hard for me to control my eating habit and i hate exercising, i rather stay on the bed and read a book or sleep. Although i use to participate in sports and other activities but when i became a college student control became an issue for me. My family has always called overweight being our family thing and they made it ok for us. They would make comments such as you need to exercise or you have gain more weight stop eating too much but they never encouraged physical activity as a priority. My family buys healthy and unhealthy foods in the house and they believe that being a little overweight is not a big deal. I could understand their prospective because in my culture being overweight mean evidence of wealth, good living, abundance and beauty. If you are not overweight you have a high chance of not getting married in my culture. We have recently changed our behavior, the children now participate in physical activities because their health is very important. My family has started purchasing healthier foods and has included physical activities with their daily plan. We participate in activities together as a family because our health is important and being overweight does not have to be a family thing.